{"id":15117,"date":"2025-06-17T22:22:45","date_gmt":"2025-06-17T22:22:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/?p=15117"},"modified":"2025-06-17T22:22:52","modified_gmt":"2025-06-17T22:22:52","slug":"strong-vs-insufferable-women-what-makes-a-true-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/strong-vs-insufferable-women-what-makes-a-true-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"Strong vs. Insufferable Women: What Makes a True Partner?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>By Ryan \u201cDickie\u201d Thompson, Punk\u2011Rock Libertarian | Cebu, Philippines \u2013 June 18, 2025<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m diving straight into it\u2014no fluff, no filter, just unvarnished truth. I\u2019ve been here in Cebu for eight months now, and I keep hearing the same refrain: \u201cFilipino women are strong\u2011willed\u2014and you wouldn\u2019t date that.\u201d Let me tell you exactly why that\u2019s bullshit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I <em>love<\/em> strong women. Always have. Not the shrill, self\u2011antagonizing, \u201ccall\u2011me\u2011queen\u201d kind\u2014no, I want a real partner, a teammate, someone who can stand shoulder\u2011to\u2011shoulder with me in the trenches.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Strong vs. Insufferable Women: What Makes a True Partner? | Punk Rock Libertarian in the Philippines\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/OXhp0q70zVU?feature=oembed\"  allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-load-mode=\"1\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Let me lay out the facts with brutal honesty, because I\u2019ve lived this story:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\ud83d\udee0\ufe0f The Ex\u2011Who Was Married\u2014Strong and Reliable<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>My first wife? Fierce as hell. She earned a full scholarship to Westminster\u2014it\u2019s one of the best business schools in the Western Hemisphere\u2014before she dropped out because she felt out of place around wealthier students. But then she came to work with <em>me<\/em>. Right out of high school she made $30\/hour as media director. She fixed our Land Rover during Maine\u2019s brutal winters when my body was broken from that car accident. That\u2019s strength.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We both earned\u2014but I consistently made three times her income. We built a household where she homeschooled our kids, and I held down the provider role. That\u2019s a power couple dynamic: independent, capable, united.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\ud83c\udf34 The Kona Jewelry Partner\u2014Strong\u2026 and Criminal<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Then there was the girl from Hawaii. Strong-willed? Absolutely. She launched a jewelry store with me\u2014her parents even financed it. But it turned toxic quick. Reckless driving tickets, assault charges, felony convictions, violence against me and my daughter. That&#8230; that\u2019s <em>insufferable<\/em>. That\u2019s what I call crossing the line: strong-willed with a toxic spin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\ud83e\udeb6 The Recent Wife\u2014Again, Crossing That Line<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>My current marriage? New bride, beautiful\u2014another high\u2011octane Capricorn. Strong-willed but\u2026 she came with deferred-sentence baggage: assault on an ex\u2011boyfriend six months before we tied the knot. She assaulted me post\u2011wedding too. I said \u201cNo more.\u201d That\u2019s the difference between strength and insufferability. Progressive discipline, yes\u2014but not abuse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\ud83d\udc69\u200d\ud83d\udc66 The Mom\u2014Subtle Insufferability<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>And then there\u2019s my mother. Not headstrong by nature, but subtle: physical attacks, lying to police to pin blame on my dad. That\u2019s insufferable behavior. Don't mistake <strong>weak-willed<\/strong> for <strong>insufferable<\/strong>\u2014one is harmless, the other destructive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Filipino Female Reality<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Here in Cebu, most people survive on under \u20b120,000 (~US\u202f$400) a month. Single moms juggle multiple jobs and responsibilities. They\u2019re resilient, firm, and capable\u2014but here\u2019s the kicker: culturally, they <em>want<\/em> traditional roles. They prefer community, faith-rooted houses, strong men as leaders, and women who cooperate\u2014not dominate. Catholic values are alive here. I\u2019ve been touring towns across Cebu, and I\u2019ve yet to see a pride flag. LGBTQ+ people exist, yes\u2014but there\u2019s not the same uproar you see in the West. That encroachment of Western feminism? It\u2019s whispering in\u2014but it doesn\u2019t scream here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So when people say \u201cFilipino women are strong\u2011willed in a way you won\u2019t accept,\u201d they misunderstand. <em>That\u2019s not true.<\/em> I <em>do<\/em> date strong-willed women. I married strong-willed women. But I <em>never<\/em> tolerate insufferable behavior\u2014unbearable arrogance, abuse, toxicity. Dictionary definition: \u201ctoo extreme to bear or intolerable; having or showing unbearable arrogance or conceit; an insufferable bully.\u201d That\u2019s what broke my marriages\u2014<em>not<\/em> their strength, but their toxicity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What Defines a Real Partnership?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1) Strength with Accountability<\/strong><br>A strong woman doesn\u2019t dominate\u2014she collaborates. My ex\u2011wife ran media campaigns and homeschooled. She supported our mission. A partner\u2019s strength should reinforce family bonds, not dissolve them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2) A Shared Vision of Roles<\/strong><br>I always aim to lead in public: provider, protector, strategist. A good partner leads in private: nurturing, teaching, running the household. Two heads, one mission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3) Mutual Submission \u2260 Weakness<\/strong><br>Feminists love to scream that \u201csubmission\u201d is misogynistic. Not when you understand it properly. Submission is mutual. He submits to her needs; she submits to his mission; they submit to a greater purpose\u2014their family, their values.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWives submit to husbands\u201d is Biblical\u2014but that\u2019s just half the story. Husbands submit too: to the peace, growth, and well\u2011being of the household. That\u2019s not weakness\u2014that\u2019s <em>unity<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4) Strong-Willed \u2260 Insufferable<\/strong><br>Capricorn, Phoenix, Aries\u2026 I\u2019ve dated untamed women who had rightful ambition. That alone was never a problem. Some of the strongest people I know are women. The problem arises when strength turns into toxicity\u2014domination, disregard for mutual respect, violence, entitlement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why Does This Matter?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re building a life\u2014raising children, fostering independence, spreading a message\u2014weak partners hold you back. But insufferable ones destroy that foundation. You need strength, not toxicity. That\u2019s what Disruptarian is all about: freeing individuals and families to build voluntary, resilient communities. That starts with <em>strong, respectful partnerships<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Final Takeaways<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Yes, I love strong women.<\/strong> Those who hustle, who fix problems, who stare the cold in the face and say \u201cBring it on.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>No, I don\u2019t tolerate toxicity.<\/strong> If your strength turns into cruelty, dominance, or undermine respect\u2014you\u2019ve crossed the line.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Traditional roles are not weakness.<\/strong> They are functional. The man leads, the woman supports. But both lead in equal measure\u2014in different arenas.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Mutual submission isn\u2019t chauvinism.<\/strong> It\u2019s necessary. It keeps the peace, builds unity, and strengthens hearts\u2014especially in a family.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Culture matters.<\/strong> Cebu\u2019s values remind me that resilience doesn\u2019t mean rejection of tradition. You can respect heritage <em>and<\/em> move forward freely.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>So don\u2019t sell me the weak\u2011vs\u2011strong tropes. I want strength\u2014with humility, unity, and mutual deep respect. I\u2019m building a Disruptarian future\u2014and that starts at home.<\/p>\n    <ul class=\"prli-social-buttons\">\n              <li>\n            <a class=\"pl-social-facebook-button\" href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fdisruptarian.com%2Fblog%2F3h4z&#038;t=Strong+vs.+Insufferable+Women%3A+What+Makes+a+True+Partner%3F\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" onclick=\"javascript:window.open(this.href, '', 'menubar=no,toolbar=no,resizable=yes,scrollbars=yes,height=600,width=600');return false;\">\n              <i class=\"pl-icon-facebook\"> <\/i>\n            <\/a>\n          <\/li>\n                  <li>\n            <a class=\"pl-social-twitter-button\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=Strong+vs.+Insufferable+Women%3A+What+Makes+a+True+Partner%3F+https%3A%2F%2Fdisruptarian.com%2Fblog%2F3h4z\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" onclick=\"javascript:window.open(this.href, '', 'menubar=no,toolbar=no,resizable=yes,scrollbars=yes,height=600,width=600');return false;\">\n              <i class=\"pl-icon-twitter\"> <\/i>\n            <\/a>\n          <\/li>\n                  <li>\n            <a class=\"pl-social-gplus-button\" href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=https%3A%2F%2Fdisruptarian.com%2Fblog%2F3h4z\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" onclick=\"javascript:window.open(this.href, '', 'menubar=no,toolbar=no,resizable=yes,scrollbars=yes,height=600,width=600');return false;\">\n              <i class=\"pl-icon-gplus\"> <\/i>\n            <\/a>\n          <\/li>\n                  <li>\n            <a class=\"pl-social-pinterest-button\" href=\"http:\/\/pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fdisruptarian.com%2Fblog%2F3h4z&#038;description=Strong+vs.+Insufferable+Women%3A+What+Makes+a+True+Partner%3F\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" onclick=\"javascript:window.open(this.href, '', 'menubar=no,toolbar=no,resizable=yes,scrollbars=yes,height=600,width=600');return false;\">\n              <i class=\"pl-icon-pinterest\"> <\/i>\n            <\/a>\n          <\/li>\n                  <li>\n            <a class=\"pl-social-linkedin-button\" href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fdisruptarian.com%2Fblog%2F3h4z&#038;title=Strong+vs.+Insufferable+Women%3A+What+Makes+a+True+Partner%3F\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" onclick=\"javascript:window.open(this.href, '', 'menubar=no,toolbar=no,resizable=yes,scrollbars=yes,height=600,width=600');return false;\">\n              <i class=\"pl-icon-linkedin\"> <\/i>\n            <\/a>\n          <\/li>\n                  <li>\n            <a class=\"pl-social-reddit-button\" href=\"http:\/\/reddit.com\/submit?url=https%3A%2F%2Fdisruptarian.com%2Fblog%2F3h4z&#038;title=Strong+vs.+Insufferable+Women%3A+What+Makes+a+True+Partner%3F\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" onclick=\"javascript:window.open(this.href, '', 'menubar=no,toolbar=no,resizable=yes,scrollbars=yes,height=600,width=600');return false;\">\n              <i class=\"pl-icon-reddit\"> <\/i>\n            <\/a>\n          <\/li>\n                  <li>\n            <a class=\"pl-social-stumbleupon-button\" href=\"http:\/\/www.stumbleupon.com\/submit?url=https%3A%2F%2Fdisruptarian.com%2Fblog%2F3h4z&#038;title=Strong+vs.+Insufferable+Women%3A+What+Makes+a+True+Partner%3F\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" onclick=\"javascript:window.open(this.href, '', 'menubar=no,toolbar=no,resizable=yes,scrollbars=yes,height=600,width=600');return false;\">\n              <i class=\"pl-icon-stumbleupon\"> <\/i>\n            <\/a>\n          <\/li>\n                  <li>\n            <a class=\"pl-social-digg-button\" href=\"http:\/\/digg.com\/submit?phase=2&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fdisruptarian.com%2Fblog%2F3h4z&#038;title=Strong+vs.+Insufferable+Women%3A+What+Makes+a+True+Partner%3F\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" onclick=\"javascript:window.open(this.href, '', 'menubar=no,toolbar=no,resizable=yes,scrollbars=yes,height=600,width=600');return false;\">\n              <i class=\"pl-icon-digg\"> <\/i>\n            <\/a>\n          <\/li>\n                  <li>\n            <a class=\"pl-social-email-button\" href=\"mailto:?subject=Strong+vs.+Insufferable+Women%3A+What+Makes+a+True+Partner%3F&#038;body=Strong+vs.+Insufferable+Women%3A+What+Makes+a+True+Partner%3F%20https%3A%2F%2Fdisruptarian.com%2Fblog%2F3h4z\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" onclick=\"javascript:window.open(this.href, '', 'menubar=no,toolbar=no,resizable=yes,scrollbars=yes,height=600,width=600');return false;\">\n              <i class=\"pl-icon-email\"> <\/i>\n            <\/a>\n          <\/li>\n            <\/ul>\n    <style>\r\n.lwrp.link-whisper-related-posts{\r\n            \r\n            margin-top: 40px;\nmargin-bottom: 30px;\r\n        }\r\n        .lwrp .lwrp-title{\r\n            \r\n            \r\n        }.lwrp .lwrp-description{\r\n            \r\n            \r\n\r\n        }\r\n        .lwrp .lwrp-list-container{\r\n        }\r\n        .lwrp .lwrp-list-multi-container{\r\n            display: flex;\r\n        }\r\n        .lwrp .lwrp-list-double{\r\n            width: 48%;\r\n        }\r\n        .lwrp .lwrp-list-triple{\r\n            width: 32%;\r\n        }\r\n        .lwrp .lwrp-list-row-container{\r\n            display: flex;\r\n            justify-content: space-between;\r\n        }\r\n        .lwrp .lwrp-list-row-container .lwrp-list-item{\r\n            width: calc(25% - 20px);\r\n        }\r\n        .lwrp .lwrp-list-item:not(.lwrp-no-posts-message-item){\r\n            \r\n            \r\n        }\r\n        .lwrp .lwrp-list-item img{\r\n            max-width: 100%;\r\n            height: auto;\r\n            object-fit: cover;\r\n            aspect-ratio: 1 \/ 1;\r\n        }\r\n        .lwrp .lwrp-list-item.lwrp-empty-list-item{\r\n            background: initial !important;\r\n        }\r\n        .lwrp .lwrp-list-item .lwrp-list-link .lwrp-list-link-title-text,\r\n        .lwrp .lwrp-list-item .lwrp-list-no-posts-message{\r\n            \r\n            \r\n            \r\n            \r\n        }@media screen and (max-width: 480px) {\r\n            .lwrp.link-whisper-related-posts{\r\n                \r\n                \r\n            }\r\n            .lwrp .lwrp-title{\r\n                \r\n                \r\n            }.lwrp .lwrp-description{\r\n                \r\n                \r\n            }\r\n            .lwrp .lwrp-list-multi-container{\r\n                flex-direction: column;\r\n            }\r\n            .lwrp .lwrp-list-multi-container ul.lwrp-list{\r\n                margin-top: 0px;\r\n                margin-bottom: 0px;\r\n                padding-top: 0px;\r\n                padding-bottom: 0px;\r\n            }\r\n            .lwrp .lwrp-list-double,\r\n            .lwrp .lwrp-list-triple{\r\n                width: 100%;\r\n            }\r\n            .lwrp .lwrp-list-row-container{\r\n                justify-content: initial;\r\n                flex-direction: column;\r\n            }\r\n            .lwrp .lwrp-list-row-container .lwrp-list-item{\r\n                width: 100%;\r\n            }\r\n            .lwrp .lwrp-list-item:not(.lwrp-no-posts-message-item){\r\n                \r\n                \r\n            }\r\n            .lwrp .lwrp-list-item .lwrp-list-link .lwrp-list-link-title-text,\r\n            .lwrp .lwrp-list-item .lwrp-list-no-posts-message{\r\n                \r\n                \r\n                \r\n                \r\n            };\r\n        }<\/style>\r\n<div id=\"link-whisper-related-posts-widget\" class=\"link-whisper-related-posts lwrp\">\r\n            <h3 class=\"lwrp-title\">Related Posts<\/h3>    \r\n        <div class=\"lwrp-list-container\">\r\n                                            <div class=\"lwrp-list-multi-container\">\r\n                    <ul class=\"lwrp-list lwrp-list-double lwrp-list-left\">\r\n                        <li class=\"lwrp-list-item\"><a href=\"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/trump-targets-antifa-and-transtifa-after-charlie-kirk-assassination-but-citizens-must-act-too\/\" class=\"lwrp-list-link\"><span class=\"lwrp-list-link-title-text\">Trump Targets Antifa and \u201cTranstifa\u201d After Charlie Kirk Assassination \u2014 But Citizens Must Act Too<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"lwrp-list-item\"><a href=\"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/donald-trumps-second-term-a-new-dawn-or-a-familiar-storm\/\" class=\"lwrp-list-link\"><span class=\"lwrp-list-link-title-text\">Donald Trump\u2019s Second Term: A New Dawn or a Familiar Storm?<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"lwrp-list-item\"><a href=\"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/an-in-depth-review-of-donald-trumps-charitable-contributions-over-the-years\/\" class=\"lwrp-list-link\"><span class=\"lwrp-list-link-title-text\">An In-Depth Review of Donald Trump&#8217;s Charitable Contributions Over the Years<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"lwrp-list-item\"><a href=\"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/trump-playfully-teases-2024-presidential-run-provokes-leftists\/\" class=\"lwrp-list-link\"><span class=\"lwrp-list-link-title-text\">Trump Playfully Teases 2024 Presidential Run, Provokes Leftists<\/span><\/a><\/li>                    <\/ul>\r\n                    <ul class=\"lwrp-list lwrp-list-double lwrp-list-right\">\r\n                        <li class=\"lwrp-list-item\"><a href=\"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/donald-trump-weighs-in-on-plans-for-gaza-rebuild\/\" class=\"lwrp-list-link\"><span class=\"lwrp-list-link-title-text\">Donald Trump weighs in on plans for Gaza rebuild<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"lwrp-list-item\"><a href=\"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/shocking-comparison-hosts-draw-parallels-between-trumps-immigration-policies-and-the-holocaust\/\" class=\"lwrp-list-link\"><span class=\"lwrp-list-link-title-text\">Shocking Comparison: Hosts Draw Parallels Between Trump&#8217;s Immigration Policies and the Holocaust<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"lwrp-list-item\"><a href=\"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/is-doge-a-security-risk\/\" class=\"lwrp-list-link\"><span class=\"lwrp-list-link-title-text\">Is DOGE a Security Risk?<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"lwrp-list-item\"><a href=\"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/congos-m23-rebels-take-control-of-goma-and-more-updates-dd-india\/\" class=\"lwrp-list-link\"><span class=\"lwrp-list-link-title-text\">Congo\u2019s M23 rebels take control of Goma and more updates | DD India<\/span><\/a><\/li>                    <\/ul>\r\n                <\/div>\r\n                        <\/div>\r\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t hate strong women\u2014I am a strong man. But when strength morphs into toxicity, when confidence becomes domination, that\u2019s insufferable. Here\u2019s what true partnership really looks like\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15120,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":"","_wpscp_schedule_draft_date":"","_wpscp_schedule_republish_date":"","_wpscppro_advance_schedule":false,"_wpscppro_advance_schedule_date":"","_wpscppro_dont_share_socialmedia":false,"_wpscppro_custom_social_share_image":0,"_facebook_share_type":"","_twitter_share_type":"","_linkedin_share_type":"","_pinterest_share_type":"","_linkedin_share_type_page":"","_instagram_share_type":"","_medium_share_type":"","_threads_share_type":"","_google_business_share_type":"","_selected_social_profile":[],"_wpsp_enable_custom_social_template":false,"_wpsp_social_scheduling":{"enabled":false,"datetime":null,"platforms":[],"status":"template_only","dateOption":"today","timeOption":"now","customDays":"","customHours":"","customDate":"","customTime":"","schedulingType":"absolute"},"_wpsp_active_default_template":true},"categories":[9437,9451,9453,9433],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15117","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-current-updates","category-expatriot","category-podcast","category-social-opinions"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15117","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15117"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15117\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15120"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15117"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15117"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15117"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}