{"id":20566,"date":"2026-04-04T19:03:55","date_gmt":"2026-04-04T19:03:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/disruptarian-radio-standing-my-ground-on-gender-truth-and-parenting-a-fathers-perspective-from-eugene-oregon\/"},"modified":"2026-04-04T19:03:55","modified_gmt":"2026-04-04T19:03:55","slug":"disruptarian-radio-standing-my-ground-on-gender-truth-and-parenting-a-fathers-perspective-from-eugene-oregon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/disruptarian.com\/blog\/disruptarian-radio-standing-my-ground-on-gender-truth-and-parenting-a-fathers-perspective-from-eugene-oregon\/","title":{"rendered":"Disruptarian Radio Standing My Ground on Gender, Truth, and Parenting: A Father\u2019s Perspective from Eugene, Oregon"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/0aN5PtTQiLU?feature=oembed\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-load-mode=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>In this personal story from Eugene, Oregon, I talk about family conflict, gender identity, and why I refuse to abandon basic biology and truth. This is about parenting, personal integrity, and staying true to your beliefs even when it costs you. I explain why I don\u2019t use preferred pronouns, how it impacts my relationship with my kids, and why I believe society is pushing harmful ideas. 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