Parental Alienation: A Father’s Battle for His Daughter Kacey Isla Rey Thompson
Parental alienation is a heartbreaking issue affecting countless families worldwide, and my story is no exception. In this deeply personal account, I share my journey of fighting for my daughter, Kacey Isla Rey Thompson, amidst a complex web of false accusations, manipulation, and legal battles in Athy, Ireland.
The Beginning of a Nightmare
What started as a hopeful journey to build a family quickly turned into a painful ordeal. In 2020, I traveled to Ireland with the intention of marrying my then-partner, who had asked me for a child as part of our agreement for marriage. We planned everything – from the wedding to our future together – but things took a dark turn when she spread false narratives, claiming that I manipulated her into pregnancy solely to gain residency in Ireland. This misinformation not only poisoned my relationship with her family but also resulted in a brutal assault from her brothers, leaving me with serious injuries.
Struggles for Parental Rights
In Ireland, the law is unforgiving for unmarried fathers, leaving me without any parental rights despite being on Kacey’s birth certificate. This legal loophole allowed my ex to block me from any contact with my daughter, leading to unimaginable emotional pain and helplessness. I was reduced to a mere spectator in my own child’s life, desperately fighting for a role as her father.
The Impact of Parental Alienation
Parental alienation is a form of emotional abuse, not only impacting fathers but also leaving deep scars on children. It manipulates a child’s perception, fostering resentment and confusion. This narrative, built on lies and deceit, not only alienated me but also portrayed me as a villain in Kacey’s life.
The Emotional Toll and Call for Change
The emotional toll of this situation is heavy. I fought tirelessly, crossing borders and battling false accusations, only to be labeled a harasser when attempting to maintain communication with my daughter. It’s not just my story – countless fathers around the world face this injustice daily. According to statistics, 80% of suicides are men, with many linked to parental alienation and custody battles.
Seeking Justice and Reform
This isn’t just about my struggle; it’s about raising awareness and advocating for legal reforms to protect parents and children from the devastating impact of parental alienation. Our legal systems need to ensure fair and equal access for both parents, regardless of marital status.
A Message to Kacey
To my daughter, Kacey Isla Rey Thompson, I want you to know that I have fought every day to be a part of your life. My love for you is unwavering, and my hope is that one day you will know the truth.
Join the Movement
I am sharing my story not for sympathy but to spark change. Parental alienation must be addressed, and laws must evolve to protect children from manipulation and ensure they have loving relationships with both parents.
For more information and to join the movement against parental alienation, visit Disruptarian.com and follow our Facebook group: Action Against Parental Alienation.
Feminism’s Overreach and Society’s Inevitable Pushback
By Ryan Thompson
Feminism started as a movement for equality, empowerment, and justice, but as history has shown time and time again, movements that become too extreme often face a fierce and inevitable pushback. Over the past few decades, certain feminist movements have pushed past reasonable advocacy and ventured into areas that many perceive as anti-male, anti-family, and socially destructive. From the MeToo movement’s cancel culture to the N.O.W. movement’s radical goals of dismantling the family, these movements have reshaped society in ways that have led to dramatic counter-responses.
Comedians, political commentators, and even researchers have spoken out about this drastic shift, warning of the consequences. Figures like Jordan Peterson and Dave Chappelle have pointed out how the radical feminist narrative has often resulted in backlash—sometimes in the form of new laws, policies, and cultural shifts that reverse the movement’s gains. The harder feminism has pushed against the structure of society, the stronger society has pushed back.
Feminism’s Overreach: How Did We Get Here?
1. From Equality to Extremism
The feminist movement started with the noble goal of achieving equal rights for women—equal pay, voting rights, and career opportunities. However, as the movement gained momentum, certain factions began pushing a narrative of systematic male oppression, blaming men for all societal problems while excusing women’s own shortcomings.
The MeToo movement, for example, started as a way to hold powerful men accountable for sexual misconduct. But as the movement progressed, it turned into a public shaming campaign, where accusations alone were enough to ruin a man’s career and reputation—often without due process. Even Chappelle warned about this in his 2019 Netflix special “Sticks & Stones”, stating:
“I said it was going to get worse, and they said I was tone-deaf.”
He was right. Many men who were falsely accused lost their jobs, reputations, and families, with no real recourse. The weaponization of victimhood led to a culture of fear, where men became afraid to work with or mentor women, and dating dynamics were forever altered.
2. Gossip, Reputation Destruction, and Social Aggression
As Jordan Peterson has extensively discussed, aggression is not limited to physical violence. In his interview, Peterson highlights how women tend to engage in indirect aggression, such as:
Gossip
Innuendo
Reputation destruction
Unlike men, who typically engage in direct confrontation, women weaponize social influence to destroy rivals and enemies. This has been particularly evident in feminist circles, where cancellation culture has become a tool of social enforcement.
For instance, if a public figure expresses moderate or even factual opinions about gender dynamics, they are shamed, ostracized, and socially annihilated by online mobs. This behavior isn’t just anecdotal; it’s backed by studies. Research on female aggression indicates that women are significantly more likely to engage in social aggression compared to men.
3. Destroying the Family: The NOW Movement’s Radical Agenda
Feminism’s move away from advocating for women’s rights and towards anti-family rhetoric can be traced back to Kate Millet, the founder of the National Organization for Women (NOW). According to her sister’s account, early NOW meetings included discussions on how to dismantle the family unit and break monogamy through:
Promiscuity
Eroticism
Prostitution
Homosexuality
This radical push has led to the devaluation of marriage and the rise of single-parent households, with devastating consequences for children. The feminist movement, once about giving women choices, became about dismantling traditional family structures.
When a movement oversteps its bounds, society will react. Here’s how that pushback has manifested:
1. The #MeToo Backlash and Due Process Protections
After MeToo’s initial wave, it became clear that some innocent men were being accused without evidence. This led to significant legal and workplace changes:
Stronger defamation lawsuits against false accusers
Workplace policies protecting against false allegations
Judicial skepticism towards unproven claims
People stopped blindly believing accusations and began demanding evidence and due process.
2. The Rise of Men’s Rights and Gender Realism
Men’s rights activism (MRA) has gained traction as more men realize they are being marginalized in workplaces, courts, and social narratives. We now see:
More discussions on false accusations
Support for male victims of domestic violence
Recognition of men’s mental health issues
Even mainstream media has started acknowledging issues like unfair divorce laws and gendered legal biases.
3. Anti-Feminist Policies: Abortion Laws and Gender Policies
Perhaps one of the most significant backlashes to feminist overreach has been the introduction of anti-abortion laws in conservative states. As Chappelle humorously pointed out:
“You pushed too hard, and now the pendulum is swinging back.”
While feminists framed abortion as a right, many lawmakers and citizens saw the movement’s pro-abortion rhetoric as too extreme. This led to a tightening of abortion laws across the U.S., an unintended consequence of feminist extremism.
F.A.Q: Answering Key Questions
Q1: Does this mean feminism is bad?
No. Feminism, at its core, was meant to advocate for women’s rights. However, like any movement, extremism within feminism has led to serious issues.
Q2: Are all feminists part of this problem?
No. Many feminists reject cancel culture, misandry, and social aggression. However, the loudest and most radical voices tend to control the narrative.
Q3: What should be done to correct this?
Balance. Society should:
Reject feminist extremism while still advocating for equal rights.
Restore due process for accusations of misconduct.
Recognize men’s issues as equally important.
Final Thoughts
Feminism has undeniably pushed too far, and society is now reacting. The pendulum swings both ways, and as history has shown, when one side overreaches, it sparks a correction.
Men and women both deserve respect, fairness, and justice. But feminism must return to its roots of equality rather than waging ideological war against men, family, and social stability. If not, the backlash will only grow stronger.
Sources
Here is a list of the URLs from the article along with a summary of each:
1. Jordan Peterson on Gossip, Innuendo, and Reputation Destruction
URL:Jordan Peterson Interview Summary: This interview features Jordan Peterson discussing how women tend to use social aggression, such as gossip and reputation destruction, as a means of exerting power, in contrast to men’s physical aggression.
2. Dave Chappelle on #MeToo and Feminist Overreach
URL:Wikipedia: “Sticks & Stones” Summary: Overview of Dave Chappelle’s 2019 Netflix special “Sticks & Stones,” where he critiques the extremism of the #MeToo movement and its unintended consequences.
URL:Washington Examiner Commentary Summary: A political analysis of Chappelle’s argument on how the feminist movement pushed too hard, resulting in restrictive abortion laws as a societal pushback.
URL:Dave Chappelle on #MeToo and Pushback (YouTube) Summary: A short clip of Chappelle stating, “I said it was going to get worse, and they said I was tone-deaf,” referring to the unintended consequences of extreme feminist advocacy.
3. Academic Research on Female Aggression
URL:Wikipedia: Sexual Selection in Humans Summary: Overview of how sexual selection impacts human behaviors, including gender differences in social aggression.
URL:PMC Study on Female Social Aggression Summary: A scientific study explaining why women prefer indirect aggression (gossip, exclusion, innuendo) over direct physical aggression.
The Brett Kavanaugh vs. Christine Ford charade – my response
I have to censor this, because I posted this on my personal facebook page, and I will censor my use of four letter words for this public blog post. My feelings are incredible raw during this hearing, and after listening to both Christine Ford and Brett Kavanaugh testify before congress, I have came to the conclusion that this was nothing more than a political hit. I will end with my facebook post that I made directly after hearing both people testify.
Democrats, liberals, and progressives. I give not one f*** who you are, or what you think our relationship means to you.
If you support this lying bitch Christine Ford, and her faulty, inaccurate and unsubstantiated lies against Brett Kavanaugh, and you want to ruin this man’s life in favor of the ability to retain some bulls*** right to kill millions of babies in the USA every year via Roe vs. Wade.
Well please f***ing remove me. I don’t need deceitful, or gullible degenerates in my life. If you can side with Christine Ford after this weak and unsubstantiated testimony that she gives, with NO corroboration, even with people who she said who was there, even people friends of hers deny being there, or knowing about this party or anything like it.
This doesn’t just affect the life of Judge Kavanaugh, though that is enough for me to be pissed off about this. This effects the ENTIRE nation and the high courts of the USA permanently.
This reckless accusation is one of the worst that I have ever witnessed!
I hope that he gets confirmed, and I hope that there is some changes to the laws surrounding false accusations.
I have been addressing false accusations for a long time.
And while my experience has been mild compared to judge Kavanaugh, I too have been affected by false accusations
I recently disproved many lies that family waged at me, none have been sexual in nature thank God. However my mom wrote horrible stories about how when I was living in a 5 million dollar home in Bellevue Washington that I attempted to steal her broken down trailer park home, while even at the same time was paying big bucks to host her at our mansion that I was paying $8300 per month for (in work and cash).
I keep my diary of how I am combating my own dark cloud of reckless, careless and hateful people here:
And I will not allow ANYONE else to go through this, to the extent that I have the ability, and I have a renewed vigor to finish my lie detection software which you can learn more about here:
Do not think that this won’t have a backlash. The tide has changed in the USA, and in the world. Liars will find out exactly where they sit at the table of the future, and it is NOT in a place of power anymore.
What comes around goes around, as Judge Kavanaugh explained.
It’s like the boy that cried wolf. If you makeup enough bulls*** lies, and are found out, eventually people will stop believing your s***.
Be careful in the future! This bad behavior will no longer be tolerated!
As all of these lefties are making false allegations against judge Kavanaugh, at least one of these have been retracted and the man that accused Judge Kavanaugh of sexually assaulting his female friend on a boat in Rhode Island, apologized.
Which proves the points that Republicans on the Judicial Committee have been making this whole time about the problem with how #1 Democrats held on to these accusations for well too long without reporting it, and #2 that the longer this goes on, the more fake copycats will popup out of the woodwork.
The statistics regarding false accusations are extremely high, and higher than any other falsely reported crime in the USA.
A selection of findings on the prevalence of false rape allegations. Data from Rumney (2006).
Number
False reporting rate (%)
Theilade and Thomsen (1986)
1 out of 56
4 out of 39
1.5% (minimum)
10% (maximum)
New York Rape Squad (1974)
n/a
2%
Hursch and Selkin (1974)
10 out of 545
2%
Kelly et al. (2005)
67 out of 2,643
3% (“possible” and “probable” false allegations)
22% (recorded by police as “no-crime”)
Geis (1978)
n/a
3–31% (estimates given by police surgeons)
Smith (1989)
17 out of 447
3.8%
U.S. Department of Justice (1997)
n/a
8%
Clark and Lewis (1977)
12 out of 116
10.3%
Harris and Grace (1999)
53 out of 483
123 out of 483
10.9% (“false/malicious” claims)
25% (recorded by police as “no-crime”)
Lea et al. (2003)
42 out of 379
11%
HMCPSI/HMIC (2002)
164 out of 1,379
11.8%
McCahill et al. (1979)
218 out of 1,198
18.2%
Philadelphia police study (1968)
74 out of 370
20%
Chambers and Millar (1983)
44 out of 196
22.4%
Grace et al. (1992)
80 out of 335
24%
Jordan (2004)
68 out of 164
62 out of 164
41% (“false” claims)
38% (viewed by police as “possibly true/possibly false”)
Kanin (1994)
45 out of 109
41%
Gregory and Lees (1996)
49 out of 109
45%
Maclean (1979)
16 out of 34
47%
Stewart (1981)
16 out of 18
90%
Also, as a solution to many of these problems, I continue to insist that those close to me learn how to use a firearm, and to carry a firearm. Why? Because the average police response time is over 15 minutes and in some areas as high as two hours, and a restraining order is just a piece of paper. Learn how to defend yourself, by whatever means that must be for you!